How to deal with rude behavior?

Q: How to deal with rude behavior?

Sri Sri: What do you do when someone behaves very rudely to you?

– Get upset
– React rudely back
– Get frustrated
– Run-away and avoid the person or the situation
– Blame the person
– Preach to the person
None of these will in any way strengthen you.
Then what are the options? See rude behavior in this light:
– It indicates the intensity of their commitment
– It indicates the amount of stress and insensitivity
– It projects the up-bringing of the person
– It indicates a behavioral pattern
– It shows lack of knowledge
– It shows lack of observation of one’s own mind and its sensations
– It shows you behavior to avoid
– It is an opportunity for you to welcome and absorb the rudeness
– It strengthens your mind
– It unconditions the love that you are
The next time when someone is rude to you, make sure you don’t get upset. Just give back a broad smile. If you can digest the rudeness, nothing whatsoever can shake you.

I Love You Mum…..

5 years old boy :-
I Love u Mom.
MoM :- Awww ! I Love u Too..
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16 years Old Boy :-
I Love u Mom.
MoM :- Sorry ! I Have No Money…
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25 years Old Boy :- I Love u Mom.
Mom :- Kaun Hai ? Kahan rehti hai wo ?
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Moral : Maa Sab Janti hai
But the Best is
35 yr old man : mom I love you ..
Mom : beta pehle hi bola tha uss chudel se shadi mat kar na…
And the best one…45 yr old man : mom i love you…..
mom: beta mai koi bhi paper sign nahi karugi…

Tips to Motivate Yourself to Exercise‏

  • Have fun. If you hate running, dont go to the track for exercise. Find something you like. The list of different kinds of exercises are nearly endless. The only really important thing is to get your body moving and your heart rate up.
  • How you feel after a workout. I always feel great after a good workout. Its a high. And I let that motivate me the next time.
  • Calories burned. If you count calories (and its really one of the most effective ways to lose weight), you know that the more you exercise, the more calories you burn � and the bigger your calorie deficit.
  • How youre going to look. Imagine a slimmer, fitter you. Now let that visualization drive you.
  • Change it up. Even if you have a routine you enjoy, mix it up from time to time. Try entirely different exercises. You can check out a tape at the library and try yoga or kick boxing for an afternoon. This will not only keep you interested, it will break your muscles out of their routine and help produce better results.
  • Get a buddy. Exercising with a friend introduces a positive kind of peer pressure. You will be more likely to go to the gym if you know someone is waiting there for you. Talking and laughing while exercising will also keep you from being bored.
  • An exercise log/graph. For some reason, writing it down is extremely important. Really. Do it for a week and youll see what I mean.
  • Get appropriate clothing. If you dont have the appropriate clothes for the excercise, it can be irritating, uncomfortable, frustrating, or even unsafe. If you exercise outside after dusk, be sure you have reflective clothing to prevent traffic accidents. Also be sure the clothing looks nice; if you dont like the way your clothing looks, you may feel uncomfortable, and less likely to exercise.
  • Pack Ahead of Time: An iPod, athletic shoes, a towel� whatever. Walking around the house trying to find stuff is a good time to lose your resolve. Put everything together in your gym bag. When you finish working out, take out things that need to be laundered and replace them immediately.
  • Have a Goal. What do you want to achieve? Make it specific, make it meaningful, make it obtainable. Be sure to have short-term benchmarks along the way. Its OK to change your goals if the original plan doesnt work, but have a goal. Regularly evaluate how you are doing on your goals.
  • Success stories. I find the success stories of others incredibly inspirational. If a fitness website has success stories, Ill almost always read them.
  • Reward Yourself. Have a healthy reward when you reach a goal. Buy yourself that cute pair of bike shorts. Go for a weekend hiking tri. Soak in the sauna for your workout that day. Buy a new yoga video. Whatever works for you to celebrate in line with your healthy lifestyle!